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  • January 25th, 2026
  • Transgender Temptation in Santa BarbaraTransgender Temptation in Santa Barbara Hey there! I'm Barb, a fun-loving transgender woman from Santa Barbara, California. I love exploring the beautiful beaches and hiking trails in our city. I'm always up for trying new restaurants like The Lark or grabbing a coffee at Handlebar Coffee Roasters. I enjoy being part of the LGBTQ commu...
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  • A Sensual Journey of Self-DiscoveryA Sensual Journey of Self-Discovery Hey there! I'm Joye, a transgender woman from Santa Barbara, California. I love exploring the beautiful beaches and charming cafes in this city. If you're looking for someone who is proud to be part of the LGBTQ community, then look no further! I enjoy embracing my true self and living authentica...
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  • Boldly Exploring Fetishes: Vern from Santa Barbara Seeks a Dominant WomanBoldly Exploring Fetishes: Vern from Santa Barbara Seeks a Dominant Woman Hey there, fellow kinksters! I'm Vern, a friendly and open-minded guy hailing from beautiful Santa Barbara, California. Today, I want to share something unique about myself – my love for a thrilling fetish that gets my heart racing and my imagination soaring! Now, let me be clear: I'm not one t...
  • Explore Your Wildest Desires with MurphyExplore Your Wildest Desires with Murphy Hey there! My name is Murphy and I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore. I love being tickled until I can't take it anymore! There's something about feeling helpless and at the mercy of someone else that really gets me going. I'm a submissive guy from Santa Barbara, California, looking for...
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  • Explore Kinks and Fetishes with Carley from Santa BarbaraExplore Kinks and Fetishes with Carley from Santa Barbara Hey there, I'm Carley from sunny Santa Barbara, California. My husband and I are a friendly and open-minded couple who love to explore all kinds of kinks and fetishes. We believe in living life to the fullest and embracing our desires without judgment. You can find us on swingers dating profiles u...
  • Elisabeth waiting to be your QueenElisabeth waiting to be your Queen TRANSEXUAL FOR MAN IN THE Santa Barbara AREA Hi baby! I am waiting to meet you. I can host or travel to you. Down to earth preop transexual woman seeking an understanding man who can appreciate my uniqueness. I am a great cook and great fun! Let your hair down and allow me to pamper you! Private Me...
  • Transgender Beauty Looking for Love in Santa BarbaraTransgender Beauty Looking for Love in Santa Barbara Hey there, I'm Norrie, a proud transgender woman living in sunny Santa Barbara. I may not fit society's standards of beauty, but I embrace my unique body type and ethnicity with confidence. Being LGBTQ has taught me the importance of self-love and acceptance, and I'm looking for someone who shares...
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  • Looking for Love and Adventure in Santa Barbara!Looking for Love and Adventure in Santa Barbara! Hey there, lovely people of Santa Barbara! My name is Dierdre, and I'm a fun-loving transgender individual who's ready to dive into the exciting world of dating. 💖 I'm not your typical girl-next-door, with my unique body type that makes heads turn wherever I go. But hey, that's what makes life...
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  • HMU for Sex in Santa BarbaraHMU for Sex in Santa Barbara Newly Single and Ready to Mingle in Santa Barbara Hi guys, my name is Barbie, age 28. My husband cheated for the last time. Now it's my time to have some fun! If you want to hook up for passion and hot sex in the Santa Barbara, California area then message me @BarbieSingle28.     &...
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  • January 24th, 2026
  • Passionate Santa Barbara Swingers Looking for PlaymatesPassionate Santa Barbara Swingers Looking for Playmates Hello there, I'm Marta from Santa Barbara, California. My husband and I are a fun-loving, open-minded couple who enjoy exploring our kinkier side. We are active members of the swinging community and love meeting like-minded individuals who share our passion for pleasure and excitement. You can fi...
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  • A Sensual Journey: Explore Love with KareeA Sensual Journey: Explore Love with Karee Hey there, I'm Karee from Santa Barbara, California. I'm a curvy and adventurous transgender woman who loves to embrace my true self. Being part of the LGBTQ community has brought so much joy and authenticity into my life. I'm looking for someone special to share intimate moments with, whether it...
  • Explore Your Wildest Desires with MinetteExplore Your Wildest Desires with Minette Hey there! I'm Minette from Santa Barbara, California. I have a unique fetish that I absolutely adore - tickling! There's something so thrilling about the sensation of being tickled that drives me wild. I love the feeling of being helpless and at the mercy of someone else's touch. I'm a friendly ...
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