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  • November 18th, 2025
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  • Looking for Love and Adventure in Santa Barbara!Looking for Love and Adventure in Santa Barbara! Hey there, lovely people of Santa Barbara! My name is Dierdre, and I'm a fun-loving transgender individual who's ready to dive into the exciting world of dating. 💖 I'm not your typical girl-next-door, with my unique body type that makes heads turn wherever I go. But hey, that's what makes life...
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